Postpartum Massage – A Returning to Self

New Awareness

You look in the mirror and see a new person.  Welcome mother.  Welcome to motherhood.  Do you recognize her?  Can you believe how much a little person has changed life?  What now?

Enjoy the ever changing and evolving life of motherhood.  It can feel like standing at a precipice.  Whether you have waited a long time to get here or happened upon this path of mothering, you may feel overwhelm at the responsibility and uncertainty before you.  Who am I now?  How can I remain me and embrace this  new sense of self?

Reconnection

Massage is a beautiful way to increase self awareness.  As your body is massaged, you become aware of how each part of the body feels.  Done regularly, massage can help you get to know your body well.  This is so important because our body talks to us.  It tells us the real story of what is going on in our lives.  Tension in the shoulders, is it anxiety, am I slouching because of feeling sadness, am I aware of my posture when nursing my baby?  Making a plan for massage as a part of your life is worth it.  It has been found in research to decrease anxiety and depression in new mothers.  Done regularly during the immediate postpartum phase and into that first year of postpartum can make a world of difference to a mother.  It is not just six weeks to recovery.  Postpartum affects our bodies and minds for years to come. Physically, the body is jumbled up so to speak from our growing baby being inside and postpartum abdominal massage can help to reorganize things.  You have just run a marathon of birth and need to address areas of tension that have built up during labor.  You carried a growing baby for 9 months and you will have postural changes.  If you have had a Cesarean birth, this still applies to you momma.  You will have scar tissue to be addressed and you need no less self-care than a woman who gave vaginal birth.  With a plan of massage mother to baby interaction is more positive and helps baby grow well, have better social interactions, and just generally happier.  Self-massage routine can be taught to mom so that in between her massage appointments she can still reap benefits.  Plus she will know her body well, having a better awareness, and positive body view.CI8A0367

Committing to Yourself

Planning for postpartum massage should be a necessity for new moms.  It is a normal part of cultures worldwide.  Mothers are given massage daily in some cultures as well as baby.  It is not stressed enough to take care of mother in our culture.  This conversation needs to be heard more.  That is my goal.  The better cared for the mother is the better cared for the baby.  We really all benefit when mom’s are cared for.   Make it your commitment to be well, be cared for and thrive in your 4th trimester.   Mom’s make the world go round!

Book an Appointment

Deidre’s massage studio is at Buffalo Midwifery Services 289 Summer St. Buffalo, NY 14222 (716)292-6113.

 

 

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